Men do you love a little bit of it or find it gross?

Confidence does make it all. A woman who can carry themselves well is much more attractive than a very skinny, wash board ab ripped woman. Or a very skinny one on the verge of anorexia. Or a pleasantly plump woman (let's say about 80 lbs overweight). Any woman in any one of these categories can be obsessed, aka insecure, in their weight management. The ripped woman may think she's not ripped or defined enough. Do I really need to get into the other two? Either of the last two can starve or eat themselves into a grave. Be confident in who you are, in the type of woman that you are. Men's taste in women are so vast that it's foolish to mold yourself into the 'perfect woman.' There really is no such thing. What makes you think we have a 'iest woman' that differs with every source (magazine, website, etc) and every year?